Kamadeva is the god of human love and passion
who is known to awaken carnal desires among humans. Etymologically, Kama means
sensual desire and Deva means a divine being. He is regarded as the heavenly
god of love who arouses passion and love among those struck by His cosmic
arrow. He is described as a beautifully winged youth with greenish skin,
holding a bow while a quiver with arrows hangs on his back. His bow is made of
sugar cane and its string is made of a line of honey bees. His arrows are made
of 5 types of flowers, his vehicle is a green parrot and he is accompanied by
his wife Rati, Vasant (spring) and a
gentle breeze. The Shiva Purana explains that right after he was
born from Brahma’s mind, Kama stood in front of his
creator and asked ”Kam darpayani?”, or “whom
shall I please?” By this famous question he acquired the name Kandarpa, and
this was his father’s answer:
“You
should move around this world engaged in the eternal work of creation with the
five arrows of flowers in your hands and thus multiply the population. Not even
the gods will be able to obstruct your arrows.” For this reason, Kamadeva is
considered as one of the most popular and well-known deities. References to
Kamadeva can also be found in various scriptures, including the Rig Veda,
Atharva Veda and others, although He figures more prominently in the Puranas.
When
Lord Shiva’s consort Sati entered into fire and embraced
death due to the insult her father Daksha showed Shiva, He was completely
devastated and angry. He abandoned His duties and went into severe meditation.
This led to a destructive imbalance in the world, which worried all the Gods.
Meanwhile, Sati was reborn as Goddess
Parvati. She wished to marry Lord Shiva but He was least interested and
chose to ignore her feelings. Lord Brahma told Narada that the deities decided
to send Kamadeva to influence lord Shiva so that the marriage between him and
Parvati is felicitated. Indra called
Kamadeva and told him that the demon
king Tarakasur could be killed only by such a person who was the son of
Shiva and Parvati. Indra instructed Kamadeva to arouse passion in lord Shiva,
so that he agrees to marry Parvati.
Kamadeva,
accompanied by his wife Rati went to lord Shiva to accomplish his mission. After
reaching the place where lord Shiva was engrossed in his meditation, Kamadeva
made repeated attempts to arouse passion in the heart of lord Shiva, but his
actions were no avail. Right then, Kamadeva saw Parvati arriving accompanied by
her companions. She was looking divine in her beauty. Just at that moment lord
Shiva too had come out of his meditational trance. Kamadeva thought that it was
the most appropriate moment to have a go.
Kamadeva
struck lord Shiva with his ‘Kamabana’
which did have a deep impact on him. Lord Shiva was struck by the awesome
beauty of Parvati and his heart became full of passion for her. But at the same
time he was surprised at the sudden change in his behavior. He realized that it
was an act of Kamadeva. Lord Shiva looked all around him. He saw Kamadeva
standing towards his left side, with a bow and arrows in his hands. Now he was
fully convinced that it was indeed an act of Kamadeva. Kamadeva became
terrified, he started remembering god, but before the deities could come to his
rescue the third eye of lord Shiva got opened and Kamadeva was reduced to ashes.
Parvati
got scarred after seeing Lord Shiva in such a destructive anger. She went to
her house along with her companions. Rati
the wife of Kamadeva wept inconsolably. The deities arrived and consoled
her by saying that by the grace of lord Shiva, her husband would be alive once
again. After that the deities went near lord Shiva and did his worship. They
told him that it was not the fault of Kamadeva, as he had acted in accordance
with the aspirations of the deities. They also told him the mystery of
Tarakasur death. The deities then requested him to make Kamadeva alive once
again. Lord Shiva
told the deities that Kamadeva would take birth as the son of Krishna and
Rukmini in the era of dwapar. A demon by the name of Shambar would throw him
off in the sea. He would kill that demon and marry Rati, who too would be
living in a city near the sea.
But
the deities were not satisfied. They requested lord Shiva to help Rati to unite
with her husband. Lord Shiva then told them that Kamadeva would become his
gana, but he also warned them against revealing this fact to anybody. Rati then
went to the city where the demon Shambar was expected to appear in the era of dwapar.
The deities too went back to the heaven. Lord Shiva’s anger did not subside
after the death of Kamadeva and the whole world started to feel the wrath of
lord Shiva’s fury. All the living creatures became terrified. They went to Lord
Brahma and prayed to him, to save them from Shiva’s wrath.
Lord
Brahma went to lord Shiva and conveyed their request to him. Lord Shiva agreed
to relinquish his anger. Lord Brahma then carried Shiva’s ‘fury’ to the sea and
went to the sea. He requested the sea to possess it until the final
annihilation. The sea agreed to do this. This way Lord Shiva’s fury entered
into the sea and all the living creatures felt a sigh of relief. Parvati
also told Rati, that her husband Kama will take a body again later on as a son of Krishna and Rukmini, and will be
named Pradyumna. “At that time you
will be able to rejoin your husband if you will take the position of a maid
servant at the house of the demon Sambara,” Parvati said.
Rati
was glad to hear the news, and after her death she incarnated as Mayavati, the maidservant of Sambara.
The demon Sambara learned from Narada that Pradyumna, the baby boy of Krishna
and Rukmini, will kill him. The demon kidnapped the baby and threw him into the
ocean where a big fish swallowed him. Fishermen caught the fish and sold it to
the cooks of Sambara. When the belly of the fish was cut open, a beautiful baby
was discovered and he placed in the care of Mayavati. Mayavati raised the boy
and as he grew, she expressed great sexual attraction to him rather than
motherly affection.
The
boy asked his mother in wonder: “My dear mother, how is it that you express
feelings that are not befitting a mother?” Mayavati explained to Pradyumna that
he was not her son but the god Kama who was born as Pradyumna, the son of
Krishna and Rukmini, and was kidnapped by Sambara. In fact, she was his wife,
Rati, who came to join him in that incarnation. She also described to him how
his parents were probably still grieving his loss. Hearing this, Pradyumna,
filled with anger and challenged Sambara to fight. He killed the demon and,
along with Mayavati, went back to Dwaraka. When he arrived in Dwaraka, all were
impressed by his beauty and his resemblance to Krishna, but they did not
recognize him as he was mere a baby when he was kidnapped. It was his mother
Rukmini who recognized him because of the strong motherly feelings that she
started to sense for him.